I am Good and I Can.
If children can internalize a positive self-image, they are more successful. This is best done by them voicing the words.
I had an elementary math class where most of the children had a life of trouble with math. “I can’t!” was what they believe about themselves. We started everyday with everyone closing their eyes and saying in unison: “I am good, I am smart, and I can do math.” Then we started your day. We were rewriting what they believed about themselves. We would work until they learned each concept. They were not allowed to fail. It was amazing how well those children did for the first time in their life. There also was never any discipline problems in the class.
When I tutor children, I include this same method. It makes the learning more successful.
Telling children doesn’t change their self-image as much as when they tell themselves. It is good to compliment, but follow-up by asking how they feel about their work.
If you are a parent of a child with low self-esteem, say with them a statement of a new positive self-image. Help them say the same statement each morning in a private place. This will help them have a permanent change of self-esteem. I know it seems strange, but it really makes a difference. Enjoy the children in your life.
There is another discipline tip in this blog called “I Like Myself”. It has more ideas.
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